Mistress Xena is a NYC Dominatrix with over 25 years of experience. She guides her clients through consensual BDSM and Femdom exploration.
Because every person is different, Xena offers in-person sessions, distance training, and all the experiences are tailored to each submissive’s interests.
Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or a seasoned devotee, Mistress Xena builds every session on trust, skill, and mutual consent.
This site provides information relating to consensual BDSM activities between adults.
LIVE SESSIONS
Mistress Xena – NYC Femdom
All of My live BDSM Sessions are Safe, Sane & Consensual. I accept sessions by appointment only. I am available everyday. Hours: 10am-10pm. I host sessions at My private studio in Queens. Outcalls are not offered. Specialties: slave Training, BDSM, Role Playing, Goddess Worship, Elaborate Bondage, Medical Fetish, Strict Spanking, Sissy Training, Embarrassing Humiliation, Impact Play, and so much more.
What Excites Me: Wearing Latex, Slipping into Lingerie, The smell of Leather, Being pampered, and having MY way with you. Men, Women, Novices, Cross-Dressers, Fetishists, Kinksters, LGBTQ, Bondage Enthusiasts are welcome to see Me. You must be 21+. Beginners as well as experienced players are welcome.
VIRTUAL SESSIONS
Mistress Xena – NYC Domina
Unable to serve Me in person? Here are some options: I offer Phone Domination via Niteflirt.
Facetime BDSM Sessions: Facetime sessions are offered. Calls are 10 minutes or longer. Email to inquire about setting up a virtual session.
Custom Videos: My custom videos are at least 10 minutes long. Interested in a custom video. Email to inquire.
REVIEWS
In shadows deep where whispers rise, Where strength is forged and ego dies. She stands, a force both fierce and bright- Mistress Xena, my guiding light. Her voice commands the restless air. A compass sharp, a truth laid bare. With every word, my spirit bends, Yet finds its freedom in her hands. I walk the path her presence clears, A journey shaped by trust, not fear; for in her gaze, I learn my place- A willing soul, a quiet grace. Through storm or calm, through dusk or dawn, Her will the star I fix upon. My vow is carved in heart and home-To serve, to follow, hers alone.
– slave E. February 2026
Mistress Xena, my session with you was amazing, especially on the first day of spring! I enjoyed being tied up, blindfolded and being your obedient prisoner. Your voice is smooth, and beautiful whenever you whisper or talk softly. I do hope to see you again soon. Thank you, Mistress Xena.
slave N – March 2026
I just left a session from the awesome Mistress Xena and it was so awesome! We had a playful wrestling match, it was full of laughter and positive vibes, I even learned a few things from her. Talking to her made me feel comfortable and so understood as well, she also gives good kinky advice. Watch out boys, she’s strong, once she gets you in that headlock, get comfortable because you might not get out and you’ll likely get dominated. Which was awesome by the way!
– slave S. – January 2026
Thank you Mistress Xena.
