Mistress Xena – NYC Dominatrix
Explore your Fetishes and Fantasies with a World Renowned, Erotic and Authentic Dominatrix located in New York City. I have Dominated men since 2001. Ever since I became a Femdom in My hometown of Chicago, I pride Myself on being a Sadist. I will mesmerize you with My hypnotic eyes. You will be at the mercy of My powerful body gazing at My beautiful curves just as I prepare to punish you.
My personal fetishes involve wearing luscious latex outfits, gorgeous cinched corsets, beautiful lingerie that accentuates My bombshell figure. I love putting on a pair of divine heels, or lacing up My legs and feet into a pair of sensational boots. I demand My feet caressed by strong hands, and being pampered like the Goddess I am. My mood during a session could range from Erotic and Sensual to Unforgiving and Sadistic.
My sessions are personally tailored to fit each submissive. Word of advice: Be clear in describing what it is that you are seeking, so I am able to best create the best session that suits your needs. I assure all My clients will be satisfied with Me because I am respectful of their privacy and limits.
BACKGROUND
I am from Chicago. At age 16, I learned about the term ‘BDSM’ in My Psychology class. I was extremely curious. I did my own research on BDSM. I was intrigued by the images I stumbled upon on the internet, the videos. I was completely drawn to it. None of my friends knew, except a couple of boyfriends in High School. They were not into what I was into, which was frustrating. When I turned 18, I decided that this is the life I wanted to be a part of. I wanted to be properly trained.
In 2000 (right after high school), I was lucky enough to be introduced to a married couple in the scene. They were eager to train Me; take me under their wing. They took me to a few dungeon parties. I’ll never forget the first parties I’ve attended. Instantly, I knew, “This is it! This is the life I want to be a part of. The wonderful world of BDSM.”
A year later (2001), I decided I wanted to become a Dominatrix. From 2001-2004, I worked at a couple different commercial dungeons in Chicago. In the Summer of 2004, I decided I wanted to be an Independent Dominatrix. At the same time, I dabbled in Fetish Modeling, the Performance Arts, and working with a couple of producers. In 2006, I began throwing fetish parties every month. Sometimes, twice a month. My events lasted from 2006-2015.
I’ve been published, and I am honored to have worked with such talented photographers. With the performance arts, I’ve performed in many cities (i.e. Chicago, NYC, L.A. Detroit, Tampa, Montreal, Munich, etc etc). At the same time, I had worked on making movies & hosting sessions. In 2007, I decided to open Bizarre Cinema. To this day, I make kinky fetish flicks & loving it.
2021: August 2021 marks My 20th year as a Dominatrix.
2021: I relocated to Queens.
PODCAST
Xena: Life as a Dominatrix : For quite some time, I have wanted to create my own podcast channel. Finally, I did! This channel, I will be discussing: My Personal Life / Diary / Journal / Life in NYC / Life as a Dominatrix / Kink / BDSM / Fetishes / Sex / Role Play / Q&As / One on One Q&As / Fashion / Health & Safety / Relationships.
Listen and subscribe today at www.xenaromanova.buzzsprout.com
MEMOIR
Xena: Life as a Dominatrix is a story spanning almost 20 years. It chronicles my personal challenges that I have endured. Essentially, the ability to balance the fantasy with the reality of living this lifestyle. The book was therapeutic to write. It is the journal of early childhood to My present day. My story offers insight into the realm of BDSM; offering exploration on human sexuality, fetishes, and the exciting world of BDSM. Some people have a negative viewpoint on the BDSM world and yet, we’re all freaks of nature. Enjoy !
Available via Amazon: www.amazon.com/author/xenaromanova
VIDEOS
Bizarre Cinema: For 15yrs, My video store has been up & running. Bizarre Cinema is filled with: Kinky Smut, Fetish Fun, Damsels and Distress, Bound slaves, and so much more! 1,000+ clips and counting. Thanks to all the actors / actresses who have been a part of Bizarre Cinema ! Plus, all the viewers, as well. Hope you all enjoyed the clips.
Visit My Store here: www.bizarre-cinema.com
MODELING
I have been modeling for 20+ years. I have worked with several talented Photographers from throughout the world. From Fetish to Glamour to Erotic Modeling, it has given me the opportunity to really open up and become free and creative in front of the camera. It has inspired me to pick up the camera, myself. Photography is a little hobby of mine, and I cannot stop taking photos of NYC. I am working on a brand new modeling and photography website, for my own personal use. A sneak peak of my modeling can be seen in the photo galleries on this website.
PHOTO BOOK
Xena: Femdom Fatale : This 50 Page Photo Trade Book includes artistic images of yours truly. All images taken by C.Catastrophe.
Available via BLURB: www.blurb.com/
SOCIAL MEDIA
I am active on these social media sites: Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram. I do not have more than 1 Twitter pages, I do not have more than 1 instagram sites, etc.
STATS
Birthday: May, 5
Age: Early 40s
Sign: Taurus
Birthstone: Emerald
Residence: NYC (Queens)
Ethnicity: Caucasian
Hair Color: Dark Brown
Eye Color: Brown
Piercings: Ears
Body Art: 4 Tattoos
Weight: 150 lbs
Height: 5’5
In Heels: 5’10
Shoe Size: 8
Bust: 38DDD
Body: Curvy, Busty, Strong & Fit
